Nurturing Yourself while Caring for Others

Woman writing

My Story

I am a wife and mother of four children, one who is high functioning autistic.  I was raised by my mother, who was also autistic, and a step-father. With siblings, step-siblings, and half-siblings, family dysfunction was my childhood normal.

For almost ten years, I was part of the “Sandwich Generation”, meaning I was both a mother caring for my young children while also being a caregiver to my mother and stepfather who were both diagnosed with different forms of dementia. 

These experiences became my inspiration for obtaining an education in Family Science. Today I am a certified family life educator, a personal, marriage, and family coach, a caregiver coach, and an end-of-life doula.  I am also actively involved in the Family Life Coaching Association and The National Council on Family Relations.

I help individuals, couples, and families develop and implement strategies that will help them strengthen and improve their relationships in all stages of life.

And as a former caregiver, I have a special love for coaching and supporting adult caregivers, including partner caregivers who lovingly care for their significant other and adult children caregivers who tirelessly care for their aging parent(s).

Why the name Our Duet?

As a vocalist and pianist, I found solace in the chaos of a dysfunctional childhood through music. I then married a musician. You can imagine that music plays an important part of our home.

And in considering that name for my business, I thought: “Who doesn’t need more harmony in their personal life and home?”  Out of that thinking came the name “Our Duet.”

Our Duet represents the cherished memories and experiences that we create with those we love that replay in our memories and hearts just like a beautiful, harmonious melody.  As we each go through life and take on different roles at different times in our lives, such as son or daughter, mother or father, partner or caregiver, we must learn how to intertwine our melody with the melodies of those we love, and together create a beautiful intertwined duet of shared lives.